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Answer 4 quick questions to find the AI lover that fits you best — then start chatting right away.
AI Lover
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Choose a personality, chat by voice or text, and explore personalized presets designed for app-controlled products.
- 01Character selection
- 02Voice and text conversation
- 03Personality presets
App-Controlled Products
AI features work with app-controlled products.
AI Lover, DIY waveform, and video vibration features are available only on app-controlled doll or torso products.
AI Lover
Use Joyhub to chat with an AI lover while compatible app-controlled products respond through vibration.
DIY Waveform
Create custom vibration waveforms in the app and feel them through supported app-controlled products.
Video Vibration
Play Joyhub videos and sync compatible products with the rhythm of the experience.
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BIG SHOCKED AI Lab Privacy Policy
Last Updated: July 31, 2026
Introduction and Scope
The AI Lab page on the BIG SHOCKED website (the "Platform") provides AI Lover matching and chat services (collectively, the "Services"). This Privacy Policy explains how we collect, use, disclose, retain, and protect information relating to you, as well as the privacy rights and choices available to you.
Please read this Privacy Policy carefully before visiting the AI Lab page, completing the questionnaire, entering your email address, or using the chat feature. By accessing or using the Services, you acknowledge that you have read and understood this Privacy Policy. If you do not agree with it, please stop using the Services. This Privacy Policy applies to the AI Lab page on the BIG SHOCKED website, its chat interface, AI Lover matching and chat features, and related pages controlled by us.
Our Services
An AI Lover is a virtual character or piece of content powered by artificial intelligence. It is not a real person, and the Services do not constitute human companionship or medical, mental health, legal, financial, or other professional services. AI Lover responses may be generated automatically and may be incomplete, inaccurate, inappropriate, or unsuitable for your circumstances.
We use the answers you select or enter in the questionnaire to generate a matching result and display a carousel of AI Lover characters. After you select a character, the AI Lab page sends your chat messages to the relevant AI system so that it can generate responses.
Information We Collect
Account and sign-in information: After you click "Start Chatting" on the AI Lab page and enter the chat interface, we collect the email address you provide, together with your sign-in or verification status, account creation time, and necessary session identifiers.
Questionnaire and matching information: This includes the answers you select or enter in the matching questionnaire, your preferences, interests, gender or gender identity, relationship preferences, and the matching result generated by the system. Depending on the questions presented, certain answers may qualify as sensitive personal information. You may choose not to provide optional information, but doing so may affect the matching result.
Chat content: This includes the text and prompts you send to an AI Lover, AI-generated replies, chat timestamps, and the context reasonably necessary to maintain the conversation. Chat content may include health information, sexual orientation, religion, personal experiences, or other sensitive information that you voluntarily disclose. Please do not provide sensitive information unless it is necessary for your interaction.
Usage and technical information: This may include your IP address, device model, operating system, browser type and version, language, time zone, device or session identifiers, cookies, local storage data, pages visited, click paths, matching and chat actions, error logs, and network and performance data.
Requests and communications: If you submit a privacy request or another inquiry through a mechanism made available within the Services, we collect the contact details and other information you choose to provide, including your description of the issue.
Inferences: We may generate matching scores, interest labels, content preferences, or safety signals from your preferences and use of the Services. We use these inferences to provide the Services, improve matching, and prevent misuse. They are not used to make decisions that produce legal or similarly significant effects concerning you.
How We Collect Information
Information you provide directly: You provide information when you complete the matching questionnaire, enter your email address after clicking "Start Chatting," select an AI Lover character, or send chat messages.
Information collected automatically: When you access or use the Services, we may collect device, usage, and diagnostic information through cookies, local storage, server logs, software development kits, and similar technologies.
Anonymous questionnaire session: Before you provide an email address, we may temporarily store your questionnaire answers and matching status using an anonymous session identifier and browser local storage. After you sign in to the chat interface, we may associate that information with your email address so that we can display the character carousel and continue providing the chat service.
How We Use Information
Provide and maintain the Services: We process questionnaire answers, generate matching results, display the AI Lover character carousel, verify email sign-in, and process chat requests after you select a character.
Personalize your experience: We use questionnaire answers, matching preferences, and the current chat context to display AI Lover characters that may better match your preferences and to generate coherent conversational responses.
Safety and content governance: We detect, investigate, and address spam, fraud, use by underage persons, harassment, unlawful content, account compromise, prompt attacks, and other misuse. Where necessary, authorized personnel or service providers may conduct a limited human review.
Analyze and improve the Services: We use aggregated or de-identified information to evaluate feature usage, model quality, matching performance, system performance, and service stability and to improve the Services. Unless we clearly disclose otherwise or you affirmatively opt in, we do not use private chat content that directly identifies you to train general-purpose models made available to the public.
Communications: We send sign-in verification messages and other communications that are necessary for the operation or security of the Services.
Legal and compliance: We may use information to comply with legal obligations, enforce applicable terms, resolve disputes, protect the rights, property, and safety of BIG SHOCKED, the Services, and their users, and respond to lawful requests from courts, regulators, or law enforcement.
Legal Bases for Processing (Where Applicable)
Performance of a contract: Processing is necessary to receive your questionnaire answers, complete email sign-in, provide matching and chat, and deliver the features you request.
Consent: Where the law requires consent, or where we request permission for a specific activity, we will obtain it before processing. You may withdraw consent at any time. Withdrawal does not affect processing that was lawful before withdrawal.
Legitimate interests: We process information as reasonably necessary to protect the Services, prevent fraud, improve the product, conduct essential business analytics, and maintain our infrastructure, provided those interests are not overridden by your rights and interests.
Legal obligations: We process information as necessary to comply with applicable laws, regulatory requirements, court orders, and mandatory reporting obligations.
AI Matching and Automated Processing
To provide questionnaire-based matching, we may use automated systems to analyze the answers you select or enter, generate a matching result, and determine the order in which characters appear in the carousel. After you select a character, the system uses that character's configuration and the current chat context to generate responses.
Matching results are used only to display AI Lover characters and provide chat. They are not used to make decisions about employment, credit, insurance, education, housing, or other matters that have legal or similarly significant effects. If you believe a match is inaccurate, you may complete the questionnaire again where that option is available.
If a feature requires information that may be considered sensitive under applicable law, we will provide any additional notice and obtain any authorization required by law. You may choose not to provide optional sensitive information.
Chat Content and AI Model Providers
To generate AI Lover responses, perform necessary content-safety checks, and maintain the current chat session, we may send necessary chat messages, the AI Lover character configuration, conversation context, and technical identifiers to contracted cloud, AI model, or content-moderation providers. We seek to minimize the information transmitted and require providers to process it only in accordance with our instructions.
Unless we clearly disclose otherwise or you affirmatively opt in, we do not authorize model providers to use identifiable private chat content for their own advertising or to train general-purpose models made available to the public. Some providers may retain limited technical logs for a short period for security, debugging, or legal compliance, subject to applicable contracts and privacy terms.
To request deletion of questionnaire answers or chat content associated with your email address, please use any privacy-request mechanism made available on the AI Lab page. Deleted content may remain temporarily in backups or be retained as necessary to resolve disputes or meet legal obligations. Do not send passwords, payment information, government identification numbers, precise home addresses, or secrets that you do not want processed to an AI Lover.
Cookies, Local Storage, and Similar Technologies
Essential technologies: We use cookies, local storage, and similar technologies to save questionnaire progress and matching status, maintain the chat session, prevent duplicate submissions, protect the Services, and enable a smooth transition from the questionnaire to the character carousel and chat interface. Disabling these technologies may prevent parts of the Services from functioning correctly.
Analytics technologies: Where permitted by law and, when required, with your consent, we may use these technologies to measure visits, feature use, performance, and errors. We prefer aggregated or de-identified information where reasonably possible.
Your controls: You may manage cookies and local storage through your browser settings, device permissions, or any privacy controls made available on the AI Lab page. Clearing local storage may sign you out, remove unsynchronized preferences, or delete local session state.
How We Share Information
We do not sell your personal information, and we do not use private chat content for cross-site behavioral advertising. We share information only as reasonably necessary to provide the Services, comply with law, or act with your authorization. Categories of recipients may include:
Infrastructure and technology providers: Cloud hosting, database, backup, content-delivery, logging and monitoring, AI model, content-moderation, and security providers.
Account and communications providers: Email sign-in verification, email delivery, cloud storage, and customer-support providers.
Analytics and operations providers: Providers that help us measure use, diagnose performance, improve matching, and detect anomalies. We use de-identified information where reasonably possible.
Business transactions: If we are involved in a merger, acquisition, financing, reorganization, sale of assets, or insolvency proceeding, we may disclose necessary information to relevant parties, subject to appropriate confidentiality and data-protection obligations.
Legal and safety disclosures: We may disclose information to regulators, law enforcement, advisers, or other appropriate parties where required by law or reasonably necessary to protect users, the public, BIG SHOCKED, the Services, or relevant rights, property, and safety.
International Data Transfers
We and our service providers may store or process personal information outside the country or region where you live, including in the United States and other jurisdictions. Privacy protections may differ between jurisdictions. Where required by applicable law, we use appropriate safeguards for international transfers, such as standard contractual clauses, data-processing agreements, encryption, and access controls. We will obtain consent or use another lawful transfer mechanism when required.
Data Retention
We retain personal information only for as long as reasonably necessary for the purposes described in this Privacy Policy. We generally retain records associated with email sign-in, questionnaire matching, and chat. After we verify and approve a deletion request, relevant profile data, questionnaire answers, and chat content are ordinarily deleted from active systems within 30 days and removed through subsequent backup cycles, generally within 90 days.
We may retain limited records for longer where necessary to investigate security incidents or fraud, resolve disputes or complaints, complete audits, or meet other legal obligations. Aggregated or de-identified information may be retained where it cannot reasonably be linked to you. Specific retention periods may vary based on the type of information, purpose of processing, legal requirements, and risk assessment.
Data Security
We use safeguards such as encryption in transit, access controls, least-privilege permissions, logging and monitoring, backups, and security reviews. We also require service providers that process information for us to maintain appropriate confidentiality and security measures. No internet transmission or electronic storage system can be guaranteed to be completely secure. If you believe your account or chat content has been compromised, use any security or privacy reporting mechanism made available on the AI Lab page and update any relevant credentials.
Your Privacy Rights
Depending on where you live, you may have the right to access, copy, port, correct, or delete personal information; restrict or object to processing; withdraw consent; and opt out of certain non-essential communications or personalization. We will not unlawfully discriminate against you for exercising a privacy right.
European Economic Area, United Kingdom, and similar jurisdictions: Your rights include, without limitation, the rights described below. You may request information about the purposes and legal bases for processing and the categories of recipients. You may object to processing based on legitimate interests, request human review of certain automated processing, and lodge a complaint with your local data-protection authority.
Certain U.S. states, including California: Where applicable, you may request to know or access, delete, correct, or obtain a copy of personal information and may opt out of the sale or sharing of personal information or targeted advertising. We currently do not sell personal information or share it for cross-context behavioral advertising. If that changes, we will provide any opt-out mechanism required by law.
Submitting a request: Use any privacy-request mechanism made available on the AI Lab page and describe the right you wish to exercise. To protect your information, we may require reasonable identity verification. We will respond within the time required by applicable law. If we cannot verify your identity or locate sufficient information, we may be unable to fulfill the request.
Children and Minors
Please follow the minimum-age requirement shown on the sign-in page and comply with any age requirements for AI chat services in your jurisdiction. We do not knowingly collect personal information from minors. If you do not meet the applicable minimum-age requirement, do not provide an email address, complete the questionnaire, or use chat. If you believe a child has provided personal information to us, use any privacy-request mechanism made available on the AI Lab page so that we can verify the situation and take appropriate deletion or restriction measures.
Third-Party Links and Services
The Services may contain links to or integrations with third-party websites, applications, email services, or other external platforms. Those third parties may independently collect and process information under their own privacy policies. Please review their policies before use. We are not responsible for third-party content, availability, or privacy practices.
Disclaimers and Safety Notice
AI Lover characters, images, stories, and responses may be generated by artificial intelligence or created by a content team. They may not reflect a real person or our views. AI responses may be inaccurate, outdated, offensive, or inappropriate for your circumstances. You should independently verify important information and must not treat an AI Lover as a source of medical, mental health, legal, financial, or crisis-intervention advice.
Do not share passwords, payment information, government-issued identification numbers, precise home addresses, or other highly sensitive information in chat. If you or another person is in immediate danger, experiencing a medical emergency, or at risk of self-harm, contact local emergency services, a trusted person, or a qualified professional immediately. Do not rely on an AI Lover in an emergency. Safety, privacy, or content concerns may be reported through any reporting mechanism made available on the AI Lab page.
Changes to This Policy
We may update this Privacy Policy to reflect changes to the Services, legal requirements, or our information practices. The updated version will be posted on the AI Lab page with a revised "Last Updated" date. If a change materially affects your rights or how we process information, we will provide notice through the website, a pop-up, email, or another reasonable method.
Unless otherwise stated, an updated Privacy Policy takes effect when posted. If you continue using the Services after an update takes effect, you acknowledge that you have reviewed the updated policy. If you do not agree, stop using the Services and use any privacy-request mechanism made available on the AI Lab page if you wish to request deletion of associated information.
BIGSHOCKED AI Lab Terms of Use & Privacy Notice
Last updated: August 27, 2026
Welcome to BIGSHOCKED AI Lab ("AI Lab," "we," "us," or "our"). AI Lab is a digital experience on bigshocked.com that lets you explore AI Lover characters, answer matching questions, and learn about AI Lover, DIY Waveform, and Video Vibration features. Some features are designed to work with compatible app-controlled doll or torso products.
This notice explains how the AI Lab experience works, how information may be handled, and how AI Lab relates to BIGSHOCKED. By accessing or using AI Lab, you acknowledge these Terms of Use and this Privacy Notice.
1. Scope of the AI Lab Experience
AI Lab provides previews, questionnaires, character and personality selections, and links to information about compatible digital and app-controlled product experiences. Features, characters, presets, availability, and compatibility may change over time. AI Lab content is provided for general informational and interactive purposes and is not a promise that a particular product, feature, or character will be available in every region or on every device.
2. Relationship Between AI Lab and BIGSHOCKED
AI Lab is a digital experience presented, operated, and supported by BIGSHOCKED through bigshocked.com. BIGSHOCKED may provide the website, hosting environment, product information, product integration, customer-experience support, and related services for AI Lab features.
Using the AI Lab browsing or matching experience does not by itself require you to purchase a BIGSHOCKED product. AI Lover, DIY Waveform, and Video Vibration functions that control or synchronize with a product require a compatible app-controlled doll or torso and any applicable third-party app or service.
3. Access, Eligibility, and Responsible Use
AI Lab is intended for adults aged 18 or older. By using AI Lab, you confirm that you meet the minimum age required in your location. You agree to provide accurate information when requested and not to misuse, disrupt, reverse engineer, or attempt to gain unauthorized access to AI Lab or any connected service.
4. Email and Marketing Communications
Some AI Lab functions may ask for your email address or other information to:
- create and maintain access to a requested digital feature;
- provide a requested AI Lab result, update, or support response;
- send essential service-related notices; and
- improve the performance, reliability, and user experience of AI Lab.
With your separate, optional consent, BIGSHOCKED or its service providers may also send product updates, new-feature announcements, AI Lab news, promotional offers, or related communications. Marketing consent is not required to browse AI Lab or use a feature that does not require it. You may withdraw marketing consent at any time by using the unsubscribe link in a marketing email or by contacting us.
5. Information We Collect and How We Use It
Depending on how you use AI Lab, we may collect:
- Email address. To provide requested access or results, respond to inquiries, provide support, send essential service communications, and deliver optional updates you choose to receive.
- Device and browser information. To check compatibility, maintain security, troubleshoot issues, improve performance, and ensure that AI Lab works across supported devices and browsers.
- AI Lab interaction data. For example, answers to matching questions, selected characters or presets, and information about how features are used. We may use this data to provide the requested experience, maintain service quality, improve functionality, and develop new features.
- Information you voluntarily provide. To respond to your requests, provide customer support, and improve our services based on feedback.
We use information only as reasonably necessary to operate, maintain, improve, personalize, and secure AI Lab and related services, and to meet legal or regulatory obligations. BIGSHOCKED's general Privacy Policy also applies to information processed through the BIGSHOCKED website.
6. Third-Party Services and App-Controlled Products
AI Lab may link to or work with third-party services, including hosting, analytics, authentication, communications, or app services. The AI Lab page currently describes Joyhub as the app used for AI Lover chat and compatible product features. When you leave bigshocked.com or use a third-party app, that provider's own terms and privacy notice may apply. Review those notices before submitting information or connecting a product.
Third-party providers may process information only as necessary to deliver their services, maintain security, comply with law, or perform other authorized functions. Their availability and functionality is outside BIGSHOCKED's control.
7. Data Protection and Security
We use reasonable technical and organizational measures to protect personal information from unauthorized access, disclosure, alteration, or misuse. Information may be processed by providers that support platform operations, email delivery, analytics, authentication, app functionality, and customer support. No method of transmission or storage is completely secure, so we cannot guarantee absolute security.
8. Your Privacy Rights
Depending on your location and applicable law, you may have rights to:
- access the personal information we hold about you;
- request correction or deletion;
- withdraw consent where processing is based on consent; and
- manage marketing preferences or object to certain processing.
To exercise a right or ask a privacy question, contact us using the details in Section 10. We may need to verify your request and will respond within the timeframe required by applicable law.
9. Changes to These Terms and Privacy Notice
We may update these Terms of Use and Privacy Notice when the AI Lab experience, our practices, or applicable requirements change. We will post the updated version on this page and revise the date above. Your continued use of AI Lab after an update means you acknowledge the revised notice, to the extent permitted by law.
10. Contact Information
For questions about AI Lab, privacy, data use, or related BIGSHOCKED products, please use the BIGSHOCKED Contact page: https://bigshocked.com/pages/contact
11. Email Subscription Management
You can unsubscribe from marketing emails at any time by:
- clicking the "Unsubscribe" link at the bottom of any marketing email; or
- using the contact options provided on the BIGSHOCKED website and requesting removal from promotional communications.
After receiving an unsubscribe request, we will process it within a reasonable timeframe and stop sending promotional communications to the email address associated with the request. You may still receive essential service-related communications, such as AI Lab access information, product-support updates, security notices, or other important messages connected with your use of AI Lab.